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Grief hurts—psychologically, emotionally, and physically. A duo of psychiatrists (Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe) created the Social Readjustment Rating Scale (SRRS) after research with over 5000 patients. They found a high correlation (0.118) between stressful life events and physical illness, and ...
03.26.20 04:37 PM - Comment(s)
No Longer Suffering
Picture a scenario in which your client’s father dies after a lengthy illness. Countless people come through the services and say to the family, “At least he’s no longer suffering.” They intend to be comforting, to help the family feel better and focus on the positive. But that’s not what happens. I...
03.26.20 04:35 PM - Comment(s)
FIVE STEPS TO TAKE IN THE FACE OF ALZHEIMERS DISEASE
You may have seen the news: We have another drug that is showing some promise in slowing Alzheimer’s disease. This is how it works: 


Beta amyloid plaques, or build-up of “sticky” proteins on the neurons, is one characteristic of the disease. Not all people who have beta amyloid plaques have Alzh...
03.26.20 04:10 PM - Comment(s)
The population is aging and the ranks of widows, currently consisting of 11.3 million women, will continue to swell. This devastating transition prompts a high percentage to switch financial advisors or seek one out for the first time. They are aware that hundreds of thousands of advisors can invest...
03.26.20 04:06 PM - Comment(s)

The dinner reservation at his favorite restaurant goes unmade. The bouquet of her favorite flowers goes unordered. The "airbrushed feelings" card goes unpurchased and words of love go unwritten. For many of your clients, this Valentine's Day will be different from all the much-anticipated ...
03.26.20 04:04 PM - Comment(s)
It happens all too often these days. You pick up the phone and there is an angry client on the other end. The market has dropped yet again. More money disappeared. Emotions are at the boiling point. How do you handle it? 


Most advisers try to calm clients by “talking them down,” logically explai...
03.26.20 04:02 PM - Comment(s)
Imagine a usual day. You grab a coffee and settle in at your desk. You conduct two productive client meetings and go for lunch before the afternoon’s tasks. There’s nothing unusual; it’s just a typical day. Then you answer the phone, you hear the hospital chaplain’s voice …..and nothing is ever the ...
03.26.20 03:56 PM - Comment(s)
It is inevitable. As a professional with long-term clients, soon or later you will be face-to-face with a client in grief or transition. What do you do? What do you say? 


If you find yourself at a loss for words, you are not alone. There has never been a financial advisor’s guide that explains w...

03.26.20 03:50 PM - Comment(s)